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Old 07-22-2006, 09:59 PM
ess922 ess922 is offline
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Thanks for the replies. Right now I'm still grappling with the basics of our contact. We have sent many pics already and have exchanged a few emails. I just don't feel ready to talk on the phone. Bmom has called a bunch of times and I have not felt emotionally up to returning her calls. This feels bad to me... Its not like me to ignore someone. But I just don't know what to say exactly. I am fine with telling her about the baby, how and baby's doing, health, etc. But I am dreading her request(s) which I know will come with the call and I agree totally about the need for boundaries. Its exactly what I think I am struggling with so much. How to set them, maintain them, etc.

Anyway, thanks again for the thoughts and support.
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