My daughter calls her bmom by her given name. I would feel hurt if she called her mom. I feel secure with their relationship, but if she called her mom that would make me very insecure.
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Originally Posted by baby1995
hi
i have a questions for you moms. how do you feel when or if your child calls or wants to refer to the biological mother as mom,mommy. as a bmom i like for my daughter to call me mom but feel that it is taking away from her real mom. i'm wondering if you tell your children that it is their decision. i have been considering adoption myself and feel that i would to be the only one refered to as mom. also how do you feel when your child tells other strangers that she is adopted, do you feel that it is free to talk about or wish they would just consider you their mom.
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