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I would have to agree with Owlhaven. Of course, I am also biased to Ethiopia! But it is important for you to pick the right place for your family. Do the research about the culture and customs of the countries -- which one appeals to you? It is not that you will have to live your life in the culture but that culture will become a part of your life since you are adopting from there. What about costs? Some countries are more expensive to adopt from. While this isn't a factor for some it is for others. What about stability of the program? How long have they been operating? Are there any predicted problems on the horizon (rumors)? Are there people in your area that are from the culture you are thinking of? What is the age range of the child you want? Do each of the programs have children in the age range? How long of a process is it to adopt? I know that China - not a country you are looking at - is about a 14-18 month wait for a referral after you have submitted paperwork to the country? If you want a quick process it is important to know what the countries current status of referrals are. Or if you want a longer process -- to get ready -- you need to know that, too. How many trips do you need to take? I know that some countries allow escort, some only 1 trip and some require 2 trips. Is taking the time off from work an issue in this factor? What about length of stay in country? Some are shorter then others. I know it is a lot of information to take in. Research will be your best friend in this process -- it will help you to make the right decision for your family.

Best of luck on your journey,
Samantha