Manni,
First let me apologize for "freaking" on you. You managed to push one of my buttons and you don't even know me. lol
Second. My birthdaughter has parents( unfortunately her Father passed away some years back). To this DAY, WE BOTH KNOW WHO HER MOTHER IS. I would NEVER NEVER NEVER compete with her Mother to be her MOther.
My daughter and I are NATALLY related. I am so ****ed grateful that she had ( and has) such wonderful, loving parents ( and BROTHER, I don't want to minimize his role in her life) that I don't even have words to express it.
When I HAD to relinquish my daughter to give her LIFE ( yes, I mean that literally, two homeless people on the street )I prayed to God, ONLY that she get what I thought she deserved, good loving parents. In His grace, that is what she received.
I hear you about your parents and in some weird way, it gives me comfort. I would have been SHOCKED and tremendously hurt if my daughter did not get good parents and did not love them as you obviously do your own.
So, speaking as a Natal Mother, I applaud your love for your parents, that is what I wanted for my child and what you have.
BIG BIG hugs to you and I appreciate that you told your feelings here.
dmca
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