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Thank you all for responding. It really does help to know that we are not the only ones going through this. That lots of people end up with a beautiful baby.
We do have an agency in our state. The agency has been great. The issue was when the birth mother had picked us she was due in 3 weeks. So we didnt have enough time to get the medical records. We did have our social worker speak to her to see if any red flags would come up and we had a social worker in her state meet with her. She fooled everyone. We got her medical records the day before we were flying and both social workers saw a big red flag on the records. That is when they confronted her in a nice way and it all came out. We have learned that we wont go forward until we have medical records, social worker must see her in her state and a background check. As they say you live and learn.
The waiting is soooo hard. It's hard not having any control over what happens. I am going to hold onto that when it's meant to be it will be.
-K
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