[StacyKelly2]

We are in a contested adoption. We have had this angel since birth and the baby is now 15 months old. So far no court proceedings are scheduled. I am wondering who's responsibility it is to push for the court hearing. Shouldn't the birth father be pushing for this? I don't understand how this can go on for so long. The birth father contested the adoption when the baby was a couple months old. Then wanted to sign over his rights, then changed his mind. Other then sending in his forms for contesting the adoption, that is all he has done. We allowed him to see the baby which he has only seen the baby one time. He has never paid anything or basically done anything. He did agree at one point to open adoption, but then once again changed his decision. I would think if he wanted this baby he would be in court before this time fighting for custody or visits or something! Please if someone can give me some information I would greatly appreciate it. This is all so confusing..and all we know is it is unthinkable for this angel to be taken away from us. Isn't there some kind of law for the timeframe or something??