[Fran27]

We've been waiting for almost 3 months now.

We never wanted to take the risk of being lied to, so we went with an agency that follows birthmoms closely medically-wise, gives councelling, and only matches families when they are sure there is no lie and no red flags... after birth if needed. Yes, the cost is higher, but I think it's worth it for our peace of mind.

I'm so sorry you went through that failed match. I have lots of admiration for all the people like you who manage to keep going after one. I don't know how I would react.

Are you going through an agency, attorney or doing private adoption? Maybe you could look around to find a professional that follows the birthmoms more closely.

Best of luck, I hope you get matched soon again.