wow thanks for all the input! unfortunately I live in New Hampshire so getting to Oregon is a little further than my parents to drive
I do plan on staying home for the 8-12 weeks after we came home, that is a given! I'm just worried about the after that time what will happen...of course it will be closer to when I can look for a new job with better hours too, but I know I will still be stuck for a bit at first....ugh!
Thanks!
Stephanie