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Thanks, Robin. I agree with you about the honest tactrul approach, and I really like the part about holding him to a higher standard.
I just cringe when we have to go somewhere w/ bdad. He is HORRIBLE about women in general (though he's polite enough to me) and he spends most of his time telling us about his latest conquest or his latest brush w/ the law, usually with words not used in polite society.
Sometimes I secretly hope that by the time H is old enough to understand anything about it, bdad will have lost interest in the contact, but I don't really want H never knowing about his bdad.
Bdad's extended family is really very nice and I do like them. Sigh...maybe what I should really hope for is that bdad will do some serious growing up while H is doing the same.
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