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Sorry
I am so sorry to hear about this. We had a similar situation only we found out to late. We started out adopting in China in 2000, my husband had an alcohol charge on his record as a teenager which at that time was 13 years ago. Well, our agency saw no problem with it, had us get extra letters for it and couple of other things to include in our dossier. Well, when it came time to get our referral we were skipped over in our agencies batch of referrals so we waited some more. Eighteen months of waiting we found out that China denied us a child because he had that on his record and they felt it had not been long enough (mind you it was 13 years ago at that time) we were devasted but looking back on it now if they had not denied us then we would not have our precious little daughter from Guatemala here with us today who is 3 1/2. I am so thankful that God knew the bigger plan and that our child was not in China but in Guatemala. I could tell you many things that you could just see God at work in all of it.
I hope that you get the answers you need and feel at peace about your decision. I know it is hard and I hope it all works out for you guys.
Susan
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