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I was lucky,our agency did talk about it so I knew it was a possiblity. I did have it with our first adoption. My first child and all,I was trying to be the perfect mom!!
Well I felt crappy for a few months but got over it. Our second adoption I was fine. I guess I wasn't as nervous the second time around. It is not fun and is a very real feeling.
Reading and talking to people about it will help.
I also talked to my social worker and she said I would get over it in time and feel much better and I did.
Talking to your social worker should help if that is a possibility.
Pam
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John and Pam
Waiting on Alex (From Guatemala)
Born 02/20/2003
Referal 03/18/2003
Family Court: in 6/2003
DNA 8/26
In PGN 9/10
Kicked out 9/26/03, 9 previos.
Still waiting to get back in (problems with birthmothers birth certificate).
Back in PGN Feb.16,04
Out of PGN March 16th,04
Pink Slip April 7th
Home April 21,2004!!!!!
Started Paperchase for China: Sept, 2004
DTC: 01/13/2005
Anna is home 9-23-05
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