[makhaze]

Well, its interesting that his wife's ability to have children was brought up because this girl told me that he and his wife had wanted kids for awhile but were having problems conceiving and had thought that the problem was with him - obviously, it isn't. That could really destroy this wife, wanting a child and then finding out that he has had one with someone else. I am really struggling with this. I don't think I want to give her advice at all. I don't feel I am qualified to do it.

It is an interesting subject, though. What rights would this man's family have if they found out about the baby?