I've read that article on Guatadopt too! I spent the entire week last week shopping for our family portriat wardrobe. Then, I had the same thought/fear/parinoia
midway through our family photo session on Saturday- when I realized that having my 4 year old barefoot might not be the best idea- no matter how cute I think it looks (and how NONE of his dress shoes fit and his sneakers looked stupid with the outfit). Of course,he's also wearing shorts- albeit longer,bermuda-style ones, but still. . . I actually thought about running to the shoe store in the same mall as the photo studio and getting him a pair- But then my husband would have killed me (or left) and there'd be no family to take pics of. Sometimes I swear I'm more freaked out about the tiniest details of the adoption than I was about the major issues when I was pregnant!
Best of luck. . .