[b4truth]

i agree that maybe the best thing to do is keep as much personal information as possible about the bdad's family (phone numbers, addresses, work place, etc) and one day, if the child chooses to look or wants to look the mom can give him the info. and help him.



i must admit i feel a little anger/disgust at both the new mom and the husband. this is the result of selfishness and the child and that poor family are the ones who will suffer the most. the 'other woman' and the husband did what they wanted to do with no regard for anyone else but themselves.



sorry...just had to vent!