[mom2GRLC]

I believe his wife and family have a right to know.

Obviously they were both wrong in having an affair. But if I were the wife I'd certianly want to know even if it broke up my marriage. You can't change the fact that it happened. But this couple needs to deal with this and work through it. It's not right to keep it a secret. I wouldn't come out and tell his children....but YES she should tell his wife at the very least.