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Originally Posted by Howdy
My dd and I had a big spat yesterday, and my dd called her bgrandmother. Instead of the g'ma telling my kid that these things happen and assuring her that I love her, she told her that she would tell me that I should let her go live with her where she is appreciated.
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Howdy, that's really inappropriate and very unsupportive for both you and your DD. I'm sorry that bgrandmother doesn't see how positive her supporting you and your DD's relationship could be, that this child shouldn't be tugged at every chance bgrandmother gets, that she doesn't realize she can love her granddaughter and support you both.
For the original question, Regina said it best. We are in an open adoption as well, not through the foster system but through direct infant adoption in which our child's bio parents chose us. ...Our experience is like Regina's.