[mom2GRLC]

I also would not place through the state. There are many adoption agency's out there that handle older child adoptions and many many couples who are ONLY looking for older children.

If adoption is what you decide to do I would also recommend a semi-open adoption. So you would always have contact with your child in one way or another or so that he will have your info. so he can find you one day.

I know of one girl who was placed for adoption through my church agency who was 4 years old. Her birthmom was able to pick out her daughters parents and even remain in contact with them through letters and pictures. She knows it was the best decision for her child and although it was difficult she is still glad she did it.