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it's good that the first adoption went well. but when drugs are involved with the bmom and bdad they are just selfish people. i don't believe that they deserve anything from you except pictures. they are probably going to be high when they visit don't allow. you don't have to. you adopted this child to give him/her a good family and foundation this women is just trouble. let her figure out her own problems they don't relate to the adoption, like she needs extra counseling etc. she just knows that you feel sorry for her. as a bmom myself i never asked my daughters mom for help in anyway and would'nt. she took on the responsibilty of raising and loving my child. it doesn't seem right to take anything away from your child and give it to the bmom such as money. she should want you to give the best to her child and if she's trying to manipulate you she isn't. don't give in to her.
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