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Try to take one day at a time. Each time your mind plays the what if game, remind yourself that you are doing a great job loving these children. When you feel jealous, try to see the birth mom's point of view. You are blessed to have and care for these children ??? hours a week and the birth mom only gets to see them for just a few hours.
Also, don't lose heart if these children are not meant to be yours(maybe they are), they could be a connection to bring a forever child to you. Each of our foster children who left, had a caseworker who was so impressed with how we loved the child that they recommended us for our forever children.
Keep up the good work!
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