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EHH? your reading a whole lot into my posts to make them fit into your "fantasys" I haven't searched and part of me did miss my birth mother, I honour my inner child enought to let her have her feelings. I'm sorry if this is upsetting you. Maybe you might like to look at why it is hard for you to even contemplate the thought that a part of you has feelings about this? anyways I'm pleased you had a happy childhood so happy that you are on a adoption forum? I mean what did it matter that you were adopted *
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No, no fantasies or upsets here! I just don't feel a "bond" or "longing" for my bparents, with my aparent-yes; bparents-no, there's no history! And, the reason I'm on this forum is because, although, I am a mom I would like to adopt (since my adoption was great)
Also, let me ask you, if you have an inner child that's "longing" for your bmom why haven't you begun
to search? I mean, after all, I' m in denial and your not, right?