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[quote=manni28]Brenda:
Because a person is adopted doesn't mean they will "miss" or "long" for their biofamily( I think that’s a romantic myth or can be true if the adoptive family is dysfunctional) but a lot of us are happy and adjusted citizens of society who view adoption as a one time event in our lives and not a consumption or a definition of our lives.
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I dont agree with this statement. I think no matter what funtional adoptive family anyone is adopted into they will at some level "miss" or "Long" for their Bio mum. I think its a fantasy to think otherwise. yes I believe these losses can be dealt with better and the adoption gap healed, but its just nature that one is going to miss that very first "connection" goes without saying, doesnt it? Of course unless we are into denial of feelings?
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