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I can definitely relate to the fake relationships--I've got plenty!
As for opening up to bfam, I've had one horrific experience (bmom) and one terrific one (bdad).
As I look back on those and on friendsships which have succeeded or failed, I think the difference is taking time and not jumping in and going with what feels comfortable.
If you feel comfortable with b-aunt, great. If not, then maybe try slowing down a bit.
Even when things are great, though, it's hard to trust a bfamily member, isn't it? I'm still always afraid bdad is going to leave, which at this point is irrational.
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