[manni28]

Manni,
Can you take a guess at how sucessful the *plan* to save the marriage by getting rid of me actually turned out?
Big surprise...... It didn't . Less than a year after getting rid of me, the marriage and family was disolved sooo.......what was the point?

The marriage dissolved because of infidelity and a child was conceived outside of the marriage-what marriage would survive that?

Look, In my opinion, no man or woman is going to raise their spouse's child conceived outside the marriage ( i.e. affair) It just doesn't happen like that. Yeah, we can all romanize about the op keeping her baby and living happily ever after with her hubby and kids-but that is a fantasy. She, I believe, is doing the right thing. We don't know if the hubby will resent this child (it’s another man's child!) or how about this, when the father comes for visits, who do you think is going to have "issues"? No child should be living in this kind of "drama" if you ask me!