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Originally Posted by manni28
Can you imagine growing-up in a family where your mom's hubby resents your presence because you aren't his child because you were conceived while they were married? WHO would want that? Always reminded, and picked-on, because you aren't "his" or if there’s a problem in the marriage it's because of "you"-no, sometimes it's best for a child not to grow-up in the biofamily. JMHO
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Manni,
Can you take a guess at how sucessful the *plan* to save the marriage by getting rid of me actually turned out?
Big surprise...... It didn't . Less than a year after getting rid of me, the marriage and family was disolved  sooo.......what was the point?
And - to really put a twist on things- conceiving outside their marriage ALSO happened in my adoptive family. It seems they were not complete or satisifed or whatever with parenting thru adoption. They mutually agreed to have a 'friend' help them out with my adads infertility. Ugh.....you guessed it! Amom became pregnant with her 'real' son. Ain't that a kick in the pants....... the VERY reason I was surrendered to adoption was how my afamily got 'real' kids...... Less devestating?? hmmmmm
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adoptee reunited WITHOUT state, court, judge, agency, or amom approval. Woohoo!
I have my OBC!! pfffffffft!
I missed her, I missed my siblings, I missed the connection, the identity, the ethnic background, the medical history..... I lost something very important in my life for 40 plus years. I am thankful to finally have all that back
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