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I agree that two visits would be a really nice idea. The first few times I saw my birthdaughter after she was placed were really intense for me. It was really emotional. I didn't meet her grandparents until she was about 8 years old. It wasn't intentional, we just hadn't gotten around to it. I am really glad that I have met them and we are all pretty comfortable with each other now. I do know that I would have been ready to meet them MUCH earlier than I did-probably anytime after the 2nd or 3rd visit. Maybe even as part of the first visit. I am really happy that most of my family knows most of their family.
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