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I think it would be better for the child to be raised by thier dad rather than being adopted.One birth parent is better than none.The loss of your roots and the actual people and relationships too is devastating even when adoption was the only real option.
However to discover that one or other parent wanted and was able to keep you but didn't-that must be terribly hard to bear.In adoption there are no guarantees that the adoptive parents will be good parents( though many of them are), but even if adoptive parents are absolutely brilliant and fully love and support thier children, this does not automatically negate the losses of the adoptee.
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