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I'm so sorry you are going through this. We too have been almost two years in this process trying to get a daugher in our family. You have some personal decisions to make. Can you accept this child into your home as your daugher? Will you son accept her as his sister. I, personally, could not just turn away from a child that I have considered 'mine' for two years... I would do everything in my power to ensure that she felt and became part of my family.
I would also visit her again and see how things played out from there, meaning did she warm up to you; what are your feelings for her; IF after that you are still considering terminating the adoption, then maybe that is what is best for your family...
It is such a difficult position to be in; I wish you the best of luck and hope you find peace in whatever decision you make.
Angie
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8/2004- began Russian adoption
referrals suspended in Russia-What???
8/2005 switched to Guatamala
9/05 Referral of Arely- 4 wks old
12/05 Wonderful visit, w/o DNA
1/23- FC
complication after complication
Called Senator for help
2/20 Wonderful visit #2, still no DNA!!!
3/01-Meeting w/ Senator
3/07- DNA authorization and SWI
3/20- DNA test done
3/27- In PGN w/o PA
4/4- DNA match
4/26 PA
5/4-KO 1, 5/8 back in
5/18-22- wonderful visit #3
5/?- KO 2 and back in
7/5- ko 3, 8/4 back in
8/9 baby girl turns ONE
9/9 OUT of PGN
10/5 PINK
10/13- Embassy appt..
10/17-HOME--yeah!!!!
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