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I vowed that I was done with this topic, but I couldn't help myself when I saw that it had gone on this long... I think there are a number of things we can all agree on:
1. Hannah #1 was probably not near death
2. Hannah #1 deserves a loving family
3. Hannah #1 is certainly not unadoptable, like some of you have claimed
4. Hannah #1 will get scooped up the second she is referred again OR put on a SN list.
5. What happened sucks for everyone...Including those who come to this board for information and find that all the energy is going to 1 arguement that has no winner
Hannah #1 will have an amazing story one day about the winding road that brought her to her forever family. Yes, there were some bumps and road blocks, but she will find the family that is meant for her. Can we forget for a minute about whether or not their decision was right and concentrate on the fact that we all are in this process to better our families? If the roles were reversed, you may have made a different decision...and will most likely chronicle it on this site and others....and there is probably someone out there who will disagree with something you wrote, did, etc. That's what makes us human, our differences.
I guess I don't understand why the rehashing over and over again. We get it that you don't agree. Do you HAVE to have the last word? Can we maybe move on to other topics?
My prayers go out to Hannah #1. I hope that her new family finds her very soon and that she grows up knowing that so many people cared about her.
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