[TaraL]

We all say, including me, that we shouldn't judge. However the more I thought about this the more it came to me--they put themselves out there. When you publically announce anything you run the risk of getting judged. That's life unfortunately.

As I may have said before, I have heard of these situations in the past but the babies were so much more severly ill. Still don't know what I would have done but my prayers are with the families that had this happen.

If you read the blog, Hannah was fine the first day. Yes she was small and needed nutrition but could have been fine with alittle TLC. The next day it all changed. I think Hannah realized that she was not going back to her normal environment and went into shut down. This is a normal defense mechanism for IA babies.

There were no "near death" symptoms. I am only going on what I read in the blog.