We're very open about Julia's adoption. However - we have explained to our three bio daughters - Julia's adoption story is hers to tell. As our circle of friends grows to include people who didn't know us "before," if Julia wants to tell them she's adopted- fine. But our older daughters are not to tell, simply because it's not their story. It's Julia's, and her choice.
Becky
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