Thanks for the advice
I wish I had already been documenting...oh, well. As far as rehab goes, she was offered rehab by the courts in order to have a chance at keeping a baby that she gave birth to that tested positive...she decided against it. So that should all be a part of the state record. I have also kept receipts of all of the money we have ever sent her. We also rented her a place for a month with the only stipulation being that she get a job. She went looking one day, sat on her butt for the next 2 weeks, then moved out, got the rest of the money back(how I don't know) and split town without saying a word to the kids. I could go on and on, but you probably already know the general story.
Thanks again for your advice
Take care ~Anara