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I have to agree with the other posters. In our experience so far, DH has been there as support, but very quietly. I scheduled the appts, filled out the majority of the paperwork, reminded him about his part of the paperwork, etc. He, too, doesn't want me to get to excited, so he tries to temper my enthusiasm with his realism. I know he will be a great father, he will definitely step in when we get matched and bring home baby.
In our case, some of his distance is stilling dealing with the grief of our IVF experience. So, not saying this is an issue for you, but if it is, it's understandable. I am the type of person that sets that end goal, and do what it takes to get there. So, when we discovered we were not going to have bio kids, I immediately started thinking about adoption. DH struggled a little bit more I think, with the IF issues.
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