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I think not wanting to have a your chidlren's adopted status obvious to the world is a VERY legitimate reason to only consider chidren of your own race. I never think twice about that but do get uncomfortable with people only adopting SOME children of other races but not others. I have a hard time accepting that one because adoption is goning to be obvious if you are CC and have Asian children why are they more "acceptable" to family and neighbors? I think that is racist in a very patronizing way, you know some minorities are close enough to CC to be sort of OK.
lisa
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