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Thanks ladies! I will talk to dh.. I'm really not sure what his real issue is.. We've talked casually of 'when N gets big maybe he'll play baseball' -when at a baseball game of my bioson's.. or names that we like and dont like.. I guess I figured that although initially he didn't feel the connection he would come to feel it eventually.. Then we get throw with this -choose now so we can move him- from the CW, I think he just reacts back to his initial thoughts.. Anyway, thanks for the advice, I will talk to him.. If he really can't see adopting this little one, then I will just pray that the home that gets him really appreciates and loves him.