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It's so hard to judge without knowing all the details on both sides. I really believe that in most cases they ARE trying to put the kids first. I see a lot of bitterness on this board - maybe it is different where I live or maybe I don't have enough experience. But I have to say that all my frustration and anger so far comes from the COURT system, which gives the parents WAY to many chances. I've seen only good motivations (although occasionally poor follow through) on the part of the social workers. It must be so hard to always know the "right" thing to do without a crystal ball :-(
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