[wrekdiver]

I feel your pain echo...
I have a sister just like that. Wouldn't think twice-would believe it was completely rational- to cancel a birthday party if it meant that someone else, besides her children, would be getting any attention.

Before my fs came along, I tried to push my way into my nieces/nephews lives. My sister would get irritated because I was always trying to spend time with her children.

Then, after my fs came home, the she couldn't stop calling me wanting to know why her children weren't the center of my life anymore.

And I got the same, "What do you mean your fs is more important than your niece/nephew?" speech.

Must be a sister thing--She knows that she's the center of the universe. How can I be so dense as to not know that?