[myheart]

Originally Posted by AMom2Two

I need opinions please..


Part of me wants to contact him one more time, yet another part of me feels this is his way of saying, leave me alone. I don't want to chase him, or bother him. I don't know if he is feeling unsure of where he fits into all of this, as he does seem to be the sensitive type.
Any opinions?

If you feel that strongly about it,......Then I think you should contact him. Be honest with him. Let him know about your feelings. Be sure to be upfront with him and ask him if this is what he wants. If it is to hard for him and sez "That right now he cannot stay in touch" (for whatever reason).....Than let him know that your only a phone call away if he feels differently in the future. Do not be afraid of the unknown. Somone once said that "Fear is a cage that keeps us locked up from the Truth".(or something like...KWIM)So, do not be afraid to share your heart....you may be surprised at what truth is revealed.

My sons b-fathers family seem to wonder in and out of our lives, and thats ok with me. If they wanted a closer relationship, I would welcome them with open arms. But, it has to be their choice not mine. They know they can contact me anytime they want.

Hope, I made sense?