I agree that you need to follow what feels best to you. I have three, all with different levels of attachment issues, and I stood firm and personally I am glad I did. I thought my daughter from Romania had the worst attachment issues, though now I am thinking it is my latest from Guat who I kindly refer to as my velcro baby. Home almost a year, and except for mom, dad, big brother and her two sisters, you got it. No one can hold her. My in laws just love me
