[Jannyroo]

replied to my post. It has been much more than helpful. You've got me through some very dark hours.

I've set up some boundaries for my son by stipulating the 2 days I will email and sticking to them and it's only early days yet, but my son seems to be responding.

I've also been able to respond better emotionally to his needs (and mine) I would say this website beats the pants off any counselling I've had.

I can't thank you all enough for being kind and tender and yet truthful. I've listened to what you have all had to say, and it's been great. Thanks again. I just hope I've typed this in the right channel, I'm still struggling with this site as to where everything goes!!!