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I am with you! I have a friend that is pregnant with #9 and she and dh are so happy!! Thay get asked all the time dont you have a tv maybe you should get a hobbie.When she was pg with #7 when someone asked if they all had the same dad

the dad said yes they all have the same dad we are not sure about mom though especially this one(rubbing my friends belly)

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When I told the ages of our youngest 3 ( we did not have N yet) 2,1 and 6 months he said wow your dh needs to give you a break.I just laughed and said well we are not done yet!
People who are not happy tend to judge others who are!