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Janyroo, I'm not sure I have much advice to give. I think no matter what side you're on, this is what we all fear...finding someone who's not emotionally healthy and is (maybe) more than we can deal with. I'd encourage you not to back off completely...that may cause irreparable harm if you want to maintain contact with your son. He's testing you. However, you MUST take care of yourself!!! If you need some space, take it. Just do your best to explain to your son that you're still there, but need to take it at a slower pace. Be as honest as you can and keep the door open.
In the best of reunion situations, this stuff can be overwhelming. You're not alone.
I hope others have some helpful advice.
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Reunited with bmom Nov 3, 2005
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