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Old 06-14-2006, 08:06 PM
MichelleSchultz MichelleSchultz is offline
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Originally Posted by bjhv5
I know in our case( with our younger fc) it was an instant bond!With F it has been a little harder ,one due to the fact that she WANTS to go home and is having a hard time excepting that she will not.We have her in counseling and it is helping.She is starting to bond with us.

Do you mind if ask the ages of the children involved? Does age seem to effect the child's ability to bond...or yours. I worry about that too...what if *I* don't feel a bond. I love children so much...but occassionally I thank God when I meet a child that he/she is NOT mine. That probably sounds terrible, but I'm just trying to be honest.

Michelle
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(Stage: researching, made contact with county adoption cw, planning to attend orientation in July)

Homeschooling Mommy to 4 fun sweeties and
*future unknown adopted kids - praying for them daily till they are home with their new Mommy, Daddy and siblings

Psalm 127:3a "Lo, Children are a gift from the Lord"
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