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In many ways, we found the wait for our second child much easier. All that time of painful anticipation could be offset by realizing that the focus on our first would end at some point, and he'd have to share the spotlight. We were more than happy to give him his due for as long as it took.
Of course, that being said, every moment from referral to travel was terrible...just not as terrible as when we were doing it without a child at home.
There was also the factor of feeling as though we'd been so very, very lucky with our first...could we possibly repeat that? Were we tempting fate by going through the process again?
Thankfully, we were twice blessed! It was most certainly the right decision for our family.
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