Hi madfostermom, We might have the same husband.
I had been wanting to adopt and/or foster for awhile but my husband always had an excuse. So I finally gave up hope and started working on other things to keep my mind off of it. A little before a year, he brought up the subject again out of the blue. I ask if he was serious and we started classes a few months later. We went from dec. to sept. with no placement but I don't think he minded. Also I think he thought I would give up and he wasn't have to do it anymore.
I have to beg over and over for him to go to the classes or take the tests for the credit hours we need to keep our licenses.
I told him last month I would not remind him again and if we lost our licenses because of him not getting his hours in, he would not live it down.
