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Poulla, even if you were offered one now, wouldn't you need to take time off to bond?
We turned down 2 newborn babies this year. My older son's bmom had a baby then my younger son's bmom had one! Less than 5 mo. apart. It broke my heart today saying no (just today to the second). The timing wasn't right. So, I can understand some of your frustration. I am just so affraid of not having info for my son on his bbrother. I, like you am confident he will go to the right family.
I'm sorry for your frustration.
MJ
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Mommy by adoption to 2 beautiful boys, one born in '01, the other in '03. Now mommy to a new little girl born in '08, full bio to our oldest son. This adoption is in progress. We adopted through Oregon's DHS.
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