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Oh, I forgot to tell you that the seminar was scary for dh (they talked about all the "bad" stuff that could happen...which I loved because they prepared you, but I wasn't surprised as I have been the one doing the research and telling dh but obviously he wasn't listening LOL). They are much more open than we first thought we wanted to be. But now I'm kinda into it. I really see the advantages and how it can really be a joy. We put down that we would do between 6 - 8 visits if the bmom is in town and 4 - 6 (maybe as low as 3 depending on distance/cost) if they are out of town (they are all in state). Plus letters and pictures whenever they want and we are okay with birthgrandparents involvement (hey more love for the baby!!)....
We at first were thinking 3 visits a year, one if out of town, emails every month or so...but we are pretty excited about it now, they did a GREAT job at explaining how much love you have for the birthfamily and how visits don't usually have that "awkward" tone for very many, then it starts to be enjoyable....
They do an AWESOME job with the birthmothers. They place about 20 babies a year, and never have more than 20 adoptive parents waiting at one time, so they are really able to focus on counseling for all involved!! It's just a fabulous agency...definetely one of the best ones I've heard of...
Oh, and I'm kinda getting freaked out about the cost....wow...the money...I guess I'm just worried that we'll get this super fast placement...but then I'm worried we'll have to wait...omg I'm pulling my hair out already!! LMAO
Oh, and I will need to get your email adresses and you will have to email me your profile and i can send you ours so we can all give each other pointers!!
Okay, ttyl!
Natalie
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