This is great insight guys! I love this board! I totally agree the older kids have to have a say in it, I was just trying to get an idea of at what age, I guess, that they have their ability to have their say (can you tell I have no kids right now!) I have just always wanted to have a little girl and name her after my great grandmothers. Did I mention I am figuring a girl no older than 5, but I don't think I quite want an infant. Maybe I need a Dr Spock book hehehe
