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Hi CC,
You've certainly been through a considerable amount pain in your attempt to reunite with your bfamily. I'm sorry this has been so frustrating. It isn't asking too much to offer someone a little love, compassion, patience and understanding, especially when it comes to family. These are basic requirements, and necessities, that we should offer strangers everyday, not to mention family members. You've done nothing wrong in asking questions about your bfamily! It's natural to have questions. If the past is too painful for some families to endure, I can understand that, but it can be dealt with more constructively. You shouldn't be punished in this way. I think we, as adoptees, all hope to reunite with some sort of relationship, even if we have to settle for a superficial one. To be shunned is too painful to imagine. I truly hope things work out for you! I wish you peace.
Bob
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