[OnTheJourney]

Originally Posted by proudmum

Know what you mean about the whole insensitive friends thing friend is 3 mnths pregnant and told us the other day,, very happy for her ,,,, but couldve slapped her when she said " yeh, it took two months to get pregnant,, was getting really worried that it took so long" argh helloooooooo,,,, this comment made even though she knew we went through fertility treatment for 5 years before we adopted ,,,, i mean honestly...
proudmum

I really hear you on this one. Almost all of our friends started trying at the same time as us to start their families. They are now all either on there 2nd or 3rd babies, or done after two and have had vasectomies (that one kills DH). Everyone of them that had to try for more than two months for one started getting all paniced and worried. I just look at them like 'remember, I'm RIGHT HERE!'. So I've recently started responding "Yeah those couple months can sometimes seem like YEARS, eh?" That seems to remind them to count their blessing! I don't know if that's the right thing to say, but sometimes we just gotta be a little catty!

Keep Smillin'

-M