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Hugs to you, I'm sure this must be tough. I have to agree that you should probalby wait for HIM to look for you. I have several adopted cousins, and I know SOME chose to look for the birth parents and others didn't. ALL had to do it in their own time, when they were ready. At 18 he is still very young and might just not be able to deal with it right now. I"m sure he KNOWS that he can ask the social worker when he is ready, and I think you'll just have to give him his time on this one.
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